When we became were in the process of becoming foster parents, I voraciously read everything I could find about foster children, how to help children who have experienced trauma, and working within the foster care system.  While this understanding didn’t prepare me for all the tough realities of the foster care system, I’m so thankful I took in as much information as I could. Later, I needed even more help to guide my children who are adopted in healing from their early childhood trauma. Here are 50 books about adoption, foster care, and healing child abuse.50 Books About Adoption, Foster Care, and Healing Child Abuse|The Holy Mess

Books About Healing Childhood Trauma, Parenting Adopted Children, and Child Abuse

Parenting the Hurt Child by Gregory Keck


 

The Connected Child by Dr. Karin Purvis

 

Therapeutic Parenting in a Nutshell: Positives and Pitfalls by Sarah Naish

 

When Love is Not Enough by Nancy Thomas

 

Healing Trust: Rebuilding the Broken Bond by Nancy Thomas

 

99 Ways to Drive Your Child Sane

 

From Fear to Love by Bryan Post

 

The Open Adoption Experience

 

Beyond Consequences

 

The Primal Wound

 

Forever Mom: What to Expect When You’re Adopting by Mary Ostyn

 

The Whole Brain Child by Dan Siegel

I Love You Rituals

 

Attachment, Trauma, and Healing

But He Looks So Normal: A Bad Tempered Parenting Guide for Foster Parents and Adopters

 

These two by Brene Brown are not specifically about parenting children with trauma, but are very good.

The Gifts of Imperfect Parenting: Raising Child with Courage, Compassion, & Connection by Brene Brown

 

The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You’re Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are by Brene Brown

 

The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog by Bruce Perry

 

Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew

 

Building the Bonds of Attachment

 

Books About Foster Care

Another Place at the Table by Kathy Harrison — foster mom

Child Called “It” by Dave Pelzer

One Small Boat by Kathy Harrison

 

Other Helpful Books and Resources

 

One Child by Torey Haden – Torey has written a whole series of books about children she taught in her special needs classes. These books are a quick read and SO VERY good. I HIGHLY recommend these books, especially One Child.

Parenting with Love and Logic

Parenting Teens with Love and Logic

The 5 Love Languages

Boundaries with Teens

Devotions and Faith-Based Books about Adoption and Foster Care

Swings Hanging from Every Tree — devotions about foster care and adoption

Held

30 Prayers for Special Needs Parents

Children’s Books about Foster Care and Adoption

 

Challenger Deep – young adult novel about mental health issues

My Feelings Workbook

Maybe Days – a book for children in foster care

What To Do When You Worry Too Much  – a book for children who have anxiety, very good

I Said “No!” (Preventing Sexual Abuse) — we’ve used this book. It’s very good for any child.

The Family Book by Todd Parr

The Day We Met You by Phoebe Koehler


“A” is for Adopted by Elieen Tucker Cosby


All Families are Different by Sol Gordon


All Families are Different by Nina Pellegrini

Yes, I’m Adopted!

Books About Specific Disabilities and Diagnosis

Smart but Scattered — excellent for ADD, ADHD and other Executive Function issues. We use the checklists in this book for morning and bedtime.

The Feeling Good Handbook — For mental health. This book is more geared for adults, considered the Bible of mental health and therapy, it’s an amazing resource guide.

The Art of Advocacy

Shut Up About Your Perfect Kid

Parents IEP Guide

The Out-of-Sync Child Has Fun

Books about Self-Care

My Hope Toolbox Printable Kit for Depression & Sadness – this is a printable from my website

My Hope Toolbox Printable Kit for Depression and Sadness

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